When situations in life come about where you feel like things are falling apart, do you spend more time focusing on what’s “falling apart” or how it’s shaping you? It’s likely that you get stuck on what’s not working out, why things went wrong, or even end up blaming yourself. One of the things Dr. Eve continues to embrace is that evolving is that we should be mindful of not trying to avoid the hard things in life. Challenges are uncomfortable, but they are a natural part of life.